One decision can change the trajectory of your life.
For Dr. Gerardo Gonzalez, that choice came 60 years ago, when he was 11 years old and living in Cuba. After the Cuban Revolution, his parents faced a difficult decision: Stay and endure the unforeseen future, or start a new life in a foreign country.
Soon, the choice was made. The Gonzalez family left everything they’d ever known to brave a new start in the United States.
“We only had $5, the clothes on our backs, and personal items in hand,” Gonzalez recalled. “We didn’t even know any English. But my parents wanted a better life for my younger sister and me.”
Once in the U.S., Gonzalez’s parents declared their intentions for the family: to ensure their children reached their potential through the pursuit of education.
“My parents emphasized that in order for their sacrifices to pay off, we had to get an education,” Gonzalez recalled.
His mother worked hard at home in Cuba and later in shoe and embroidery factories in the U.S. His father was a car mechanic for his entire life. He often showed Gonzalez his hands, leathered with 40 years of cuts and hot engine oil burns.
“Mira a mis manos. Mira a mis manos. Quiero que obtengas una educación!” he told his young son.
“Look at my hands. Look at my hands. I want you to get an education!”
A first-generation graduate
After Gonzalez graduated from high school, he felt lost.
“I was in despair. I had no idea what I was going to do with my future,” he shared. But his friend, Rafael, posed a life-changing question: “Why don't you go to college?”
Gonzalez was puzzled.
“Me? College? The thought of continuing my education was so foreign to me,” he said. His family had no university legacy, SAT prep advice, or connections to a dean. But with Rafael’s continued encouragement, Gonzalez applied to Miami Dade Junior College in 1969.
A few years later, history was made for the Gonzalez family: Gerardo became the first family member to graduate from college. He earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a PhD in counselor education and higher education administration from the University of Florida.
Over time, Gonzalez observed two critical things about higher education:
- College affords access to free expression and fundamental democratic freedoms.
- Not everyone can afford college to gain said freedoms.
“Even with [Miami Dade’s] low tuition and fees, my family and I couldn’t afford it on our own,” said Gonzalez.
It was only with the help of federal financial assistance that Gonzalez could pay for his degree.
“I wouldn't have been able to achieve what I did if there weren’t people on the way giving me a helping hand.”